ACCEPT MISTAKES FOR PROFIT

Sometimes when we make a mistake, it may be that creative part of ourselves has sneaked out. More than simply a "Freudian slip," mistakes can be a way our soul can express itself, free of the constraints of our conscious intentions. Try accepting a mistake, whether on the job, while cooking, or writing a letter, as a clue to a more creative, soulful approach to the situation.

That's the advice of Lane Arye, a voice instructor, in his book, "Unintentional Music" (Hampton Roads). He argues that if we pay attention to what is trying to happen rather than what we think should happen, we can open the door to self-discovery. Try looking at your next mistake with curiousity and love and see what happens.