A
lie was told to hide a deed,
And
as the days went by
There
came a sudden powerful need,
To
hide that spoken lie.
And
then the whole thing tumbled flat
And
there was no excuse,
So
friends, don't try to build like that,
There
isn't any use.
This
ancient poem still fits into many present day circumstances and
worthy of note today. My older sister Helen, age 92, became a dental
missionary in Ivory Coast in Africa. She was so happy to inform me
that our two nearby nieces were planning to become medical doctors
and she was donating most of her savings and able to send them
$2,500.00 for each of them. It meant so much for Helen as she
reminded me that Canada is so short of doctors because they are
importing doctors who had graduated from the university in south
Africa who then moved to Canada. They are wonderful doctors but that
leaves a serious shortage in Africa. So I agreed to help out by
loaning these two "doctors to be" $30,000.00 interest free
to help out. I asked their mother, my niece to not mention my name
to them so they would be encouraged to try hard. "Oh no Auntie
because they think so much of you and they will try even harder to
succeed with their hopes and dreams.
Last
July brought my 90th birthday. My eyesight is failing and jobs for
people my age with failing sight have great difficulty. The two
students say they do not want to be doctors anymore and my loan to
their parents is all spent. Both students are no longer interested
in being doctors. With one more year at university they could become
nurses which are in short supply here. I contacted the Vernon
courthouse about this debt and the responsibility of their parents in
connection with the money their mother had received from my account
at Dominion Securities. The Judge was very nice but said he would
exit the court room and let all four of us talk it over. Both of
these students have found husbands and have been busy with vacations
during the years, including flying to tropical islands during
Canada's winter months. So far the parents have been unwilling to
help their daughters. It may be just the mother since their father
may not have known about the loan but he did come with her to the
court hearing and knew the money had been received from my account at
Dominion Securities.
My
own son Ken graduated as the top student from the University of
Victoria and has helped me out. He put himself through that
university with no help from us and did it with summer jobs and
scholarships. With his ability and knowledge my husband was a top
student during his lifetime also but died in 2003 from harmful
materials used to developing computers which were later found to be
harmful in development of them.
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